Thursday, January 12, 2012

Memo untuk Saleh

It has been almost 2 weeks since we moved back to Putrajaya. The biggest adjustment is of course dgn Izz. Jadual ambik & hantar dia ke taska I think is ok by now (we've established yg you'll hantar/ambik every Monday and Friday, and I'll hantar/ambik the days in between). Yg masih in observation and adjustment is what we do with him before hantar & after ambik dr taska.

After almost 2 weeks, the best jadual for him (basically to ensure dia x meragam) is as follows. I'll put down every detail here so that you know what to do when he does something out of the ordinary.

Pagi - AM
Izz bgn ikut suka dia nk bgn pkl brapa, but if you were the one to hantar to taska, better kejut dia awal sikit since awak kena punch in by 8.30am. Kejut pkl 6.30am would be best, meaning kite pun kena bgn awal la. I have done this twice, mmg ok... tp x dpt nk practice kerap sbb saya bgn awal pada hari yg awak hantar je, which is Monday and Friday. Dh la kite br je pindah. So here goes:

6.30am - kejut Izz bgn, while I prepare his breakfast
bg breakfast senang2 je, so that dia x lapar masa hantar ke taska. bole bg either roti or muffin or cerelac. kalau cerelac kena buat 2 sudu besar penuh (2 sudu btul2 penuh before bancuh). kalau saya xde or busy, bg dia main masa awak prepare his breakfast. make sure semua benda lengkap before kluar dr dapur with his breakfast (bekas air dia, the breakfast itself, wipes). kalau dh kluar dapur, then nk masuk balik mmg susah. dia akan merengek.

6.45am - bg Izz breakfast
pasang tv and dia akan ikut pegi depan tv. dudukkan dia and bole start bg mkn. slalu kitorg tgk disney channel. mmg dia akan duduk and mkn smpi kenyang. kalau x habis, jgn paksa. nnt muntah balik. rugi! btw, skarang dia dh pandai, kalau kite nk bg air utk minum tp dia xnk, dia akan tolak. kalau dia nk, mmg dia akan minum. so ikut dia la.

7.00am - habis breakfast
slalu mkn x lama. kalau habis awal biar dia main2 dulu sementara awak gi basuh apa2 yg patut kat dapur. bila dia dh kenyang, dia xde kacau. dia akan main happily.

7.15am - Izz yak
lps setel kat dapur, bole la check diaper dia. sejak almost 2 minggu ni, mmg dia akan yak pagi2... with or without breakfast. kalau dh breakfast lg la confirm akan yak kan. so bwk la dia ke toilet and cuci. after cuci pakaikan dia disposable diaper and sluar dulu before awak cuci the CD. Jgn x cuci CD ye kalau dh kena yak. Nnt lg susah nk bersihkan. Important: masa nk tinggalkan dia kat hall and awak gi masuk bilik utk cuci his CD, make sure dia x nampak awak masuk bilik and tutup pintu. make sure dia occupied dgn benda lain. kalau dia nmpk, mmg dia akan kejar awak sampai depan pintu and nangis bagai nk rak sambil banging on the door. mmg x dpt buat apa kalau dh mcm tu. so kena pandai2 la masuk bilik time dia x pandang.

7.30am - dh ready nk kluar rumah
lps cuci yak (and sambil dia main2 kat hall) awak bole la get ready for work. lps dh setel semua dgn izz br la bole pakai baju keje. kalau x, mmg kena tanggal balik for sure. Btw, Izz ada 1 beg je utk bawak ke taska. So senang je nk ingat apa nk bawak for him. Apa yg perlu ada dlm that beg... that one I'll brief you at home. List of what items to refill daily dh ada kat cermin.

In case jadual ni lari, and awak terkeluar lmbt dr rumah... you can always bawak Izz ke office utk punch in dulu then br hantar dia ke taska :)

Dropping Izz off kat taska mmg memilukan like always... itu masih x ubah lg.

Petang - PM
Ambik dr taska skarang dh ok. xde melalak mcm masa drop off. The sooner you pick him up the better sbb Izz balik rumah always hungry. Masa kat taska x nmpk hungry but smpi je rumah mmg hungry. Important: Jgn masuk dapur selagi x plan nk buat dinner dia. Kalau nk tukar baju, gi tukar baju dulu before masuk dapur. Once dh masuk dapur, dia akan tunggu kat pagar sambil nangis2 nk mkn. Kalau kluar dapur tp xde food dia, mmg dia akan nangis mcm kebuluran sgt2 dh. Bkn nangis sikit2 ye.

6.30pm - sampai rumah, prepare dinner Izz
mmg dia akan menangis sementara kite prepare food dia tp xpe, buat xtau je. I will make sure ada bubur dlm fridge utk dinner dia everyday. Ambik sudu besar and scoop 4 sudu (btul2 penuh) masuk dlm mangkuk kecik kat rumah tu. Mmg akan almost full la mangkuk tu. Mmg byk tu la Izz mkn, and kalau x habis pun sikit je. Panaskan bubur, masukkan Marmite sikit and kacau. Important: Make sure just nice je suam bubur tu, x terlalu panas sbb dia lapar so akan mkn sgt laju. Awak ada tnye camne nk tau bubur tu just nice je suam dia... rasa la!! Hahahaha. Saya tau awak x suka bubur tp kena jugak rasa. x kisah la before or after campur Marmite. Kena rasa jugak. Btw, jgn lupe bekas air and wipes dia masa kluar dapur. xde masa nk masuk dapur again sbb sure dia dh nangis2 nk mkn. kalau awak lucky, sempat la nk bwk dia depan tv. kalau x sempat, mmg mkn depan dapur je, suap dia in between pagar.

6.45pm - habis dinnner
dh kenyang, dia akan happy. dia akan main2 sendiri. time ni awak buat la apa awak nk. kalau saya, time ni la saya basuh baju ke, lipat baju ke, basuh pinggan ke, tgk tv ke, refill bag taska dia utk esok nye ke. apa2 je la.

7.15pm - mandikan Izz
bg la half an hour before mandikan dia. apa2 pun better mandikan dia sbb dia akan rasa best and bau pun wangi. mlm2 sblm tido x perlu lap2 dh. Important: mandikan Izz jgn lama2 sbb takut dia selsema. After mandi dia akan main2. bole la solat maghrib. make sure dia x nmpk time awak nk masuk bilik. kalau x, mmg drama la. saya pernah solat kat hall skali je. nasib la dh tahiyyat akhir br dia dtg duduk btul2 depan saya and sengih2.

8.00pm - bg Izz susu
confirm dia nk susu by this time. after dh bg susu, dia akan main2 lg. kalau dia merengek tu, mmg dia dh ngantok. kalau berjaya bg dia tido kejap, biar la dia tido. kalau x berjaya, kena la dukung dia or main2 dgn dia.

9.00pm - Izz masuk tido
sbb pkl 8pm dh minum susu, pkl 9pm bole terus letak dia dlm cot. the next round dia bgn minum susu maybe around midnite. then another round dlm pkl 4am.

Lps Izz tido, time tu la slalu nya saya mula bz buat mcm2. Masak bubur for the next 2 days (saya masak every other day), ampai baju yg dh dibasuh td, kemas beg taska Izz, sterile/basuh botol susu Izz yg hantar ke taska dll.

The next morning... ulang la balik apa yg dibuat the day before except kalau the next day tu weekend :D

Nnt kite buat tutorial ye. You have to actually do all those things at least a few times la. Kalau saya bz dgn closing at least awak x blur camne nk buat itu, buat ini.

4 comments:

  1. wuyooo... dasyat tul... smoga berjaya papa izz... ehehehehe` nati bole la bg daddy danish rujuk memo utk papa izz ni... wani pon stat dok umah sendiri mmg sume daddy danish kena buat... coz wani kuar keja sblum subuh lg.. kul 6 dah kuar keja, kul 7 ptg br smpai umah plak... so daddy la kena antar amik danish kat taska nati.. ehehehe`

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  2. penting ni wani sbb anis every month akan busy dgn closing. time closing mmg keje dr pagi smpi pkl 10pm at least. tu yg saleh kena jaga izz. kalau x biasa mmg payah la nk tau budak tu nk apa. kalau dh biasa, br senang. alhamdulillah izz adjusting well kat putrajaya. xde la letih menjaga dia.

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  3. aku kalau balik lmbt, wan balik lg lambat. bole? so takda maknanya nak buat note2 ni. kecuali outstation haritu lah. tu pun mmg ltk note dlm hp dia. tp setuju bila ko kata kena buat beberapa kali secara konsisten barulah biasa.

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  4. okeh, dh siap print..1 nk tampal opis, 1 nk tampal kt cermin kt umah tu..hehehe :P

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